The Intimacy of Loss

The Intimacy of Loss
This post first appeared on the Tiny Buddha website in January 2012 I love my wife, so it stung the other day when she said, “Hmm … You’re going to have trouble letting ...

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Turning the Other Cheek

Turning the Other Cheek
But I say to you, do not resist an evil person; but whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.” —Matthew 5:39 I only recalled this famous bit of advice the other day when it was too late. I wonder if ...

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Family Relationships: So Close and Yet So Far

Family Relationships: So Close and Yet So Far
It’s surprising how often family ties are antagonistic, and how many adults are still enmeshed in sibling rivalry. Even those of us with complicated families tend to think that everyone else’s family is just fine. I don’t speak to my ...

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So You Think Buddhists Meditate?

So You Think Buddhists Meditate?
As Westerners abandon their inherited religions and get used to the secular life, they’re turning in record numbers towards Buddhism, or something like it. There’s no God, you don’t have to believe in anything and it’s all very scientific. In fact it’s not a religion ...

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